Women Seeking Men
“I just wanted a casual hookup, now
she thinks we’re a couple or something!”
If you’ve ever said something like that – it’s likely your own damned fault.
You’re about to find out why, and you’re about to see how to make sure it never happens again.
It’s real simple and it starts like this:
If you want to find women seeking men and hookup tonight, you need to look in the right places.
Consequently, this is the best place to start – guaranteed.
Read for a little bit and you are going to see the best of the best ways to meet women seeking men and to meet women who want sex. And I’m talking about both the old-school places and techniques for picking up girls, and the newer ways too.
Foremost, know this:
It really isn’t hard to find women looking for guys; the trick is in finding women who are looking for the same kind of hookup that you need to find.
If you just want to meet women; then heading down to the local bar is still a really good way to go. You can also join a hobby club or take a class; you are pretty well certain to meet people this way. On top of that; especially when you join a club or take a class – you will meet women that already have a shared or similar interest (the hobby or the subject of the class); and that always makes it pretty easy to get a conversation going to see what other interests you might share.
But those ideas are focused on just meeting girls who might be looking for any kind of relationship. They might be looking for literally anything. Like I said before, these are great ways to just meet; but what if you have something specific in mind?
Don’t you think that if you are able to start your search focused on women who want the same things that you do, that you will be able to avoid wasting a lot of time and effort?
Think about it like this:
If you want a Big Mac, do you go to Waffle House?
So if you want to find a girl for a casual dating relationship, why would you try to just go out to random places and meet random women.
Of course you can, and you might even get lucky.
Obviously, I think that it’s better to take chance and luck out of the equation.
I prefer to connect right out of the box with girls who just want casual sex, and nothing else.
Now because you are on this site; I think it is a safe assumption that you hope to meet women seeking men for casual dating too. That is a little more of a tricky situation. You can still hang out at the bar or some other gathering place; the trouble is that even though there might be women seeking men there; you won’t know what they are seeking them for until you actually make the contact and invest a little time to figure out what they are really hoping to find.
Unfortunately, people don’t normally advertise specifically what they are looking for – especially if they are looking for a casual encounter. You won’t likely see people sitting around wearing a tee shirt that says, “Casual Hookups Wanted”.
One of the great ways available to us now for connecting with people who are looking for something particular is using online dating sites or Adultfinder type sites that help connect people who are just about the sex.
Let me tell you; when it comes to meeting people for a very specific interest; the internet has really delivered. There are dating sites for particular occupations, sites for people of different religious persuasions, sites for based upon politics, lifestyles – you name it and there are sites out there where those people can connect.
So if you already know that you want to meet women seeking men for casual dating; all you really need to do is check out a site or two that specializes in exactly that – one like this one.
One thing I will point out is that if you happen to live in a town that has a singles or swingers type of club – and if it isn’t too exclusive (meaning that you can get in) – then that is really a great avenue for meeting people looking for a hookup.
It’s worth mentioning that if you’ve got a girl to take to that club, you’ve pretty much got a free pass to get in.
Conversely, if you’ve got a girl who wants to go to a swinger’s club; you don’t particularly need to get into that club!
Obviously, not every area has such a place so that just might not be an option where you live.
Surely, there used to be local Craigslist or maybe even Backpage personals in your town; but they are no more. Besides, those and other Sexfinder type sites are great but you have to be really careful – there are a lot of crazy people using those unmoderated sites. It has gotten pretty common to hear stories about a meet up gone bad – people getting ripped off (or worse) by people that they met through such services.
When you’re looking for sex, the last thing you want to do is hookup with some chick that has a whole boatload of crazy where her head should be.
So if you don’t have a singles club as an option when you want to find sex now; and you don’t want to go the local personals route for various reasons; you can always check out some local dating sites that will help you find women seeking men with very particular needs in mind.
But here’s a word of caution about those too:
They are not all created equally.
Some of them are just designed to separate you from your cash without ever helping you find a real, live, sex partner.
Now if you are just looking for some online chatting or picture trading, those will work. However, to meet real girls in your town, you need to look for sites that can deliver the goods.
Common things to look for are:
- Repeat members\long term members
- An active membership
- A big member base
- Free trials and sign-ups
- Members in your area
Here’s a good one to get you started – click here now – browse and see if you might find what you are searching for.
Unfortunately, there often is a downside to using these sites – most of the good ones charge a membership fee.
The trick is to use one that allows you to join for free and check things out. If it doesn’t look right – not enough girls in your area, etc. – then just move on.
But think about this – if it does look like a good fit, wouldn’t it be worth the price of a couple of beers and some wings to add a bunch of booty buddy names to your contact list?
It’s pretty much this easy:
- Check out a few sites
- Join free
- Browse personals
- Make a list of contacts
- Get busy, then get laid
There’s really no reason why you shouldn’t give it a go, unless maybe you can get into a local swinger’s club or have some better ideas.
It’s the best way that I know of right now to meet women seeking men who are just all about the sex.
Click here to check it out and see if you agree.
And hey – leave a comment below – let me know what you think and whether or not it works for you!