If you want to hookup as fast as possible, then you don’t want to spend any time chasing after women who may or may not be potential partners – you want to find women looking for sex.
Now fortunately; in this day and age that really isn’t as hard as it sounds. Women looking for sex are just about everywhere; you just have to get out there and get in front of them – the rest will come pretty fast and pretty easily.
The most obvious place to find women looking for sex is to head out to the clubs or bars and pick out women who look to be “unattached” – no guys around, maybe a girlfriend or two – but no apparent boyfriend or date.
Now one of the problems of going that route is that most of the other single guys in your town are going to be right there looking for the same thing – you are going have some significant competition that at best might make the process and the hookup take longer than it should; and at worst you’re going to end up investing a lot of time for nothing; you’ll be going home “empty handed” – or maybe going home to an empty hand.
If you happen to live in a larger town – or one that is pretty progressive – there might well be a “swingers” club or some other place where people go for the express purpose of hooking up for casual sex. These are a great option if they exist in your town; the people are there for one thing so there’s no “dating and mating” routine that you have to go through – you can just get right down to business.
One of the potential drawbacks to such clubs is that they can be pretty restrictive as to who they let in. Single guys generally aren’t as welcome as couples or single women so you might need to know someone at the club or have an invitation from a member just to get in.
But there might still be other options.
Some towns have; for want of a better term; “speed dating” events. That’s where you rotate through several prospective partners; spending just a few minutes with each; and the later connecting a little more closely with the ones that you seemed to hit it off with. These aren’t usually a great way to set up a fast hookup; but you can find more women looking for sex this way than you might imagine. The key is to just be upfront about it.
The next best way to meet women looking for sex is to use online personals or adult dating sites. I’m just a little leery of the personals sites like Craigslist – there are just too many people out there who are trying to run scams; and on top of that; there are people on those sites who basically have a whole big box full of crazy where their heads should be.
The online dating sites – like this one – give you a little more selectivity, and the whole sign up process (even the free sites) tends to filter out the people who aren’t serious about finding someone to hook up with.
If you do have swinger’s type clubs in your town and you can manage to get inside of one; that’s your best bet for finding women looking for sex. If that’s not an option where you live, you can’t really go wrong using an adult dating site.
You can check out a good one by clicking here.